If I want to head for a relaxing night away from the house, usually I will unwind at my local pub. It is there that I see a ton of eager single people wanting to find a good significant other. They want to dress real fancy and hook up with somebody, but the reality is that these people cannot find the right person just overnight with no rhyme or reason. The best suggestion that I have for these people if they want to meet somebody attractive is to give them a good first impression of you. What better way to do that then by trying some kettlebell exercises or doing some art classes?
Imagine, for a minute, what it's like for a single person walking into a bar full of strangers. You don't know what you have in common with them - if you have almost anything in common to speak of at all, that is. It could be an intimidating experience and at the end of the night, you haven't met anyone with long term potential or you spent all night nursing your drink in isolation in the area. You should have picked up ceramics or kettlebell training as a substitute.
When I offer these examples, I'm pulling them from off the top of my head. The reality is that, whether it's the kettlebell workout or a spinning class, the smoothie bar at the gym is still better than the local bar for meeting someone. Try to imagine not having to get all dressed up, but instead slipping into your gym gear and doing something that could be good for you and for your dating life. While it can be anyone's biggest fear that they're going to get hit on when they're trying to pump some iron or get in their cardio, if a person is open to it they could meet someone who shares their interests. Especially if you're taking a class at the gym, you're meeting a bunch of people who are interested in the same sort of things that you are. Plus, you don't have to worry that your prospective date is going to be a lazy couch potato because they're living the same active sort of life that you are.
If a step aerobics class or the kettlebell workout isn't for you, pick a class that really interests you. If you like art, pick up a drawing or ceramics class. Maybe the live model in class will strike your fancy or you can just meet a fellow fanatic of the arts. (Picture yourself reenacting that scene with Demi Moore and Patrick Swayze in Ghost.) If you're interested in cooking (or can't cook for your life) look for a potential date in a cooking lesson and join over your love (or hatred) of a culinary arts.
Remember that chances are that you aren't going to discover the person you're going to commit to in a dimly lit bar. Instead of being encircled by the smells of a brewery floor and too much perfume, imagine being overloaded by the fragrances of something delicious at a cooking class. Instead of meeting someone whose judgment is impaired by one drink too many, meet someone to share your endorphin high after good workout. After all, if you're interested in cooking, art, or kettlebell training - isn't it ideal to find someone who shares that eagerness?
Imagine, for a minute, what it's like for a single person walking into a bar full of strangers. You don't know what you have in common with them - if you have almost anything in common to speak of at all, that is. It could be an intimidating experience and at the end of the night, you haven't met anyone with long term potential or you spent all night nursing your drink in isolation in the area. You should have picked up ceramics or kettlebell training as a substitute.
When I offer these examples, I'm pulling them from off the top of my head. The reality is that, whether it's the kettlebell workout or a spinning class, the smoothie bar at the gym is still better than the local bar for meeting someone. Try to imagine not having to get all dressed up, but instead slipping into your gym gear and doing something that could be good for you and for your dating life. While it can be anyone's biggest fear that they're going to get hit on when they're trying to pump some iron or get in their cardio, if a person is open to it they could meet someone who shares their interests. Especially if you're taking a class at the gym, you're meeting a bunch of people who are interested in the same sort of things that you are. Plus, you don't have to worry that your prospective date is going to be a lazy couch potato because they're living the same active sort of life that you are.
If a step aerobics class or the kettlebell workout isn't for you, pick a class that really interests you. If you like art, pick up a drawing or ceramics class. Maybe the live model in class will strike your fancy or you can just meet a fellow fanatic of the arts. (Picture yourself reenacting that scene with Demi Moore and Patrick Swayze in Ghost.) If you're interested in cooking (or can't cook for your life) look for a potential date in a cooking lesson and join over your love (or hatred) of a culinary arts.
Remember that chances are that you aren't going to discover the person you're going to commit to in a dimly lit bar. Instead of being encircled by the smells of a brewery floor and too much perfume, imagine being overloaded by the fragrances of something delicious at a cooking class. Instead of meeting someone whose judgment is impaired by one drink too many, meet someone to share your endorphin high after good workout. After all, if you're interested in cooking, art, or kettlebell training - isn't it ideal to find someone who shares that eagerness?
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